When did the roles reverse?

As I read this article over again before posting it, I can feel the sadness in me.  I do realize there are some things you choose to take on and other choices are just that; to do or not to do and that is one of the questions. Does anyone else understand how hard this […]

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Measuring success in saying good bye to grief

What does saying good bye to grief look like to YOU?  Can you imagine the grief you would want or need to say good bye to or would some component of grief always be with you?  Everyone is unique in how they handle or do not handle grief.  Everyone has a story that is somewhat […]

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Since my loss, I forget how to prepare meals

“I forget how to prepare meals” is a comment I have heard several times from the primary cook in a family after a sudden and/or traumatic death loss, which is defined by the individual, not myself.  You may wonder how someone can forget how to cook meals. Consider for a moment what the grieving person […]

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